How do you start intimacy with your husband? Many of us, young wives, did not figure out how to initiate sex. In this guide, I will provide you 101 ways you can do this. Yes, there are that many! Instead of having one answer to how to start intimacy with your husband you will have as many as Dalmatians from Disney. Let’s go!
Easy puppy Dalmatian – you want to start intimacy with your husband, but you are still shy.
- Tell your husband slightly suggestive compliment like “You look really nice in this shirt”.
2. Cuddle on the bed together – it’s hard not to go further from there.
3. Schedule the date night and let your partner know about it.
4. Instead of small shy kiss give him a passionate one – then he most probably will follow from there.
5. Ask a safe question like “What do you want to do tonight?”.
6. Take turns – make a deal in which days you start intimacy and when he does.
7. Sleep naked – believe me, that’s already a strong signal for him that you want it.
8. Respond to his initiations even when they are small.
9. Put a special dress on, preferably a tight one. And that, my reader, is the sneaky way to start intimacy with your husband indeed. But it works!
10. Be intentional about improving your bedroom life.
11. Write him a cute message about how much you miss him (and his body of course ;))
12. Take a picture in your underwear then send him. (But I do not have any pretty underwear! Who cares, girl? You are pretty!).
13. Cook a special meal with aphrodisiac for example sesame seeds – this is very sneaky!
14. Take his shirt off – don’t worry, you did not marry an idiot, he’ll see it as a green light.
15. Go out on a romantic walk and connect emotionally. This is also the way to start intimacy with your husband noninvasively.
Cute, but not a puppy anymore Dalmatian – you want to naturally start intimacy with your husband.
16. Tell your husband a suggestive compliment like “You have a nice form, the gym is paying off”.
17. Prepare a romantic dinner for which you will dress up seductively. You do not know what to cook? Here are some ideas.
18. Start kissing him passionately.
19. Put on something sexy then surprise him like this when he gets home.
20. Initiate a playful pillow fight.
21. Ask him directly if he wants to make love.
22. Tell him you want him tonight. What are you saying? “This is too direct to start intimacy with my husband”? Trust me and try it. 😉
23. Share a slow dance together – make sure to be very close!
24. Give him an encouraging massage.
25. Ask him for a massage – it can go both ways, right?
26. Go to the gym together.
27. Send him a playful message.
28. Remind him of a memorable night you spent together and ask for a reminder of it.
29. Initiate a surprise date night. For example, play video games together.
30. Try aphrodisiac scents or candles.
31. Plan a romantic gateway.
32. Start undressing him. Additionally you can undress yourself.
33. Express how much you desire him.
34. Set up the bedroom – for example with candles, rose petals, whatever you like. Or, equally importantly, whatever HE likes.
35. Watch a movie naked.
An adult Dalmatian – you want more bravely start intimacy with your husband!
36. Show him a suggestive gesture.
37. Compliment them sexually – go all the way in, girl!
38. Start kissing him and then just throw him on the bed.
39. Brush against each other while passing.
40. Run your fingers through his hair.
41. Grab his hand and then lead him to the bedroom.
42. Get naked in front of him.
43. Step by step get rid of his clothes.
44. Try different, exciting locations. For example washing machine?
45. Get spontaneous. For example, stop cooking and go.make.love.to.your.husband!
46. Leave a note on the bed.
47. Set up a code with your husband.
48. Take a shower together.
49. Send him a spicy message.
50. Wear lingerie or:
51. Let him know you do not wear an underwear.
Older adult Dalmatian – you are becoming a pro in initiating!
52. Try role-playing if you both feel comfortable in in.
53. Talk about your fantasies.
54. Prepare a romantic bath.
55. Write down few things you would like to try in bedroom and hand it to your husband.
56. Send him some some hot pictures- for instance nudes.
57. Ask HIM for nudes, let’s be fair.
58. Tell him with details what you will be doing later.
59. Make a jar with paper pieces on which both of you will write intimate challenges. Then pull one every day and go for it.
60. Organize romantic weekend.
61. Print out the invitation to make love then follow the invitation.
62. Wait for him naked.
63. Walk around in something not obvious, for example a bikini.
64. Have an open conversation. For example, what you like and do not like in the bedroom.
65. Play Truth or Dare.
66. Ask your husband what they would like to receive in a bedroom today. Then do it for him.
67. Read Song of Songs together 😉 Additionally you can get rid of a piece of clothes after every chapter.
68. Go to the nice shop with your husband and let him pick a set of lingerie for you.
69. Sit on his lap.
70. Start complimenting your husband’s appearance.
71. Send him a desiring look.
72. Flirt with him then flirt with him seductivelly.
73. Push him against the wall and start kissing him.
74. Try dirty talking. But there is nothing dirty about it since you’re married. Then try clean dirty talking?
75. Show him affection in the public.
76. Dance with him naked.
77. Try new foreplay.
78. Sexchat with your husband.
79. Send him a video of you taking your clothes off.
80. Blindfold your spouse and lead him to the bedroom.
Senior Dalmatian – girl, you know what you’re doing!
81. Dance for him! Then dance for him some more!
82. Perform a striptease for him. But you don’t know how? Check it here.
83. Try something different – surprise him!
84. Ask him about his fantasies and then fulfill one of them.
85. Do the lap dance while undressing him.
86. Wear very revealing, brave outfit for him.
87. If you both feel comfortable with this, try some accessories.
88. Try sex video call when he’s away.
89. Write him a suggestive poem. Does not have to rhyme, he’ll love it anyway!
Cruella de Vil – only for brave Wives!
90. Give him a list of new positions you would like to try then let him pick.
91. Be direct and tell him you want it RIGHT NOW.
92. Kiss him in his sweet spot – no matter there it is, no judging!
93. Grab him. You know where, don’t make me write this.
94. Record yourself and give him his private porn video of you – this is the only pornography that God strongly approves! Any other will just bring damage to your marriage.
95. Try a new challenge – for example, whoever reaches first wins.
96. Choose few songs that will signalize that you want it. Then play it, girl! Play it as it clearly signalizes: “I want to start intimacy with my husband!”.
97. Make a nice dinner, but this time start from the dessert. Yup, you guessed – that’s you.
98. Create a word or a gesture code and then use it – even in public – nobody else will know what it means anyway!
99. Print your seductive picture then stuck in in the place only he can access.
100. Buy each other hot outfits and wear them while you do a foreplay.
101. Mix some of the ideas above. You can also try all of them, however it will be a looooong night!
I do believe that sex was designed by God to happen between a husband and a wife. And it’s so much fun! I gave you 101 examples, but you can do way more. Starting intimacy with your husband is an endless adventure!
Yup, and from now one 101 Dalmatians will never be the same. 😂
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